About The LA/OC Jacks. (Not to be confused with the outdated website laocjacks.org)

  • We've been covered in the media.

    The LA/OC Jacks is a private, clothing optional social group party for gay/bi men. We've been getting together for 30 years thanks to founder/pioneer MIKE. https://www.ocweekly.com/the-martha-stewart-of-sex-parties-6402374/
    Mikey's Summer Message | June 20, 2021 | Happy PRIDE! Mike is the "OG" -- an original. And one of a few pioneer founders in SoCal who organized these type of events. 'Mikey' started at a time when it was unfavorable and risky to do these events in residential homes. He opened his house in conservative, anti-gay Orange County ... and dared to allow our community a safe place to not only play, but also, to meet others and bond as long-time friends. We thank and salute you, "General Mike." You are a visionary. -Marcus Logan
    FOUNDER MIKE GAILEYIn the 1990s, Gays in the Military was being protested as policy. And then in 1992/93, the Hawaii Supreme Court told a lower court that they had to have a compelling reason that the State would suffer, in order to retract 3 marriage licenses accidentally issued to gay couples.
    As news of this spread, it caused fears that people would flock to the 50th State, get married, then return to their home state where marriages would HAVE to then be honored. Republicans and Conservatives/Evangelicals were up in arms. And Orange County was very Republican.
    Yet, in 1994, Mike opened up his home and his house would be packed every weekend with guys (who were mostly in the closet and fearful). There were NO good meds for HIV/AIDS, and men were still dying. Mike arranged for free HIV tests and counseling. Most of the men came to meet others for socializing and just watching ... there was actually not that much 'naughty action' happening. Guys started bringing food, drinks, game cards, etc. The neighbors all found out and were so cool and supportive when they heard the rumors. It got all over town. City hall and the police department all knew.
    It was a huge risk, that came with a lot of negatives. Mike would charge $5-10, and people would come, make a mess, steal things (it is no change from today, though most guests are respectful).
    A guest wanted to start something in L.A. that was by invite only, and this happened in the early Aughts, after a test was done when about 22 L.A. guys went to Mike's O.C. party and "gave a show" to everyone. It was an amazing scene to see, and grew interest in guys trying to get into the elite, invite-only L.A. Division events.
    Mike turns 74 on July 5th, 2024.
    Please stop by and say "Thank you, Major Mike."
    TERMS AND CONDITIONS OF MEMBERSHIP OR ATTENDANCE TO OUR EVENTS (partial and not complete): The use of any image of any person on this website does not imply their participation with our organization, or their sexual orientation. They are simply pictures that have been made public on other websites. However, some of the men whose pictures are featured on this site are personal friends or business colleagues of us/our team, and they actually do visit our parties, or they are compensated to attend. Some perform at our events in various capacities. There are actually straight (heterosexual) allys that sometimes attend our events to socialize in a non-sexual way and to support their gay/bi-sexual friends/family members, as well as provide financial contributions to the non-profit/community causes we donate most of our funds to. All guest information is never sold or shared, except by legal subpoena, lawsuit or lawsuit demand, or by law enforcement for the sole purpose of criminal or civil action. General information using your "Alias" name which you openly share with others at the event may at times be included in our private Newsletters to other members, unless you specifically state that you would not want that share. Further, if you are RED BANNED from our org, we reserve the right to share your true identity (including any pictures/ID) with other sister organizations or establishments in an effort to protect all good, rule-abiding guests at other events in the future: in the city, county, state, nationally or worldwide, or in any future universe known or unknown. You agree to hold us free and harmless from such action which is only a result of your irresponsible action(s) at our events. Any bad publicity or monetary ramifications you may bring to yourself, including a loss of privacy, is by your own doing. A RED BAN in perpetuity, with Prejudice, only comes about after multiple verbal warnings, a written warning, suspension, and/or a YELLOW temporary ban of disciplinary action. Terms and Conditions are subject to be changed/updated at anytime, and you agree that it is solely your responsibility to read and understand them and agree to be bound by them by being a member, or attending any event, at any time in the past or future. Mike Gailey's The LA/OC Jacks www.theLAOCjacks.org by Dan Michael ("Mike") Gailey / Mike Gailey Enterprises Los Angeles | Orange County