TEMPORARILY CLOSED FOR REPAIRS
Besides the 501c3 non-profit LGBTQ+ orgs that Mike makes donations to, we will also start regular donations from your door ask to MADD.org and the Garden Grove Police Association, our brave men and women in Blue who risk their lives at every moment, on and off duty, for our safety.
Your Door ask donations will also go to National Public Radio; the Public Broadcasting System; local L.A. and O.C. ASOs (AIDS Service Organizations (like Michael Weinstein's AHF: AIDS Healthcare Foundation; and APAIT that does our STD/STI/HIV testing on-site (Asian Pacific AIDS Intervention Team). Finally, for #BLM .....in the continued prejudice, hatred and racism they face, Mike contributes to the United Negro College Fund. Women: They know their children 9 months before we are born. When AIDS first hit in the 1980s and 90s, most gay men were in the closet, and thus did not associate or get involved for multiple reasons of fear. Most straight men stayed away from helping or saying anything, for fear of being perceived as 'being a fag with THAT disease.' Who came forward in droves to speak out? Our mothers. Our sisters. Our female friends. Since 1994, way before the meds available today were invented, we give back to our ladies via programs listed at NationalBreastCancer.org – the leading cancer affecting women. Finally, in stopping the homeless and drug vagrants that kept coming directly to Mike's O.C. house from a nearby park, causing mayhem, violence, theft and vandalism (they are all gone now), what is left of door proceeds will go to Orange County organized programs to help people become sober-living, and find transitional shelter, guidance, job placement, and to become self-sufficient. Any member of our private group may ask to review a copy of these quarterly contributions at our events.
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*FIRST-TIME 'NEWBIES' GET A FREE PASS for any future visit (within a year) if there are 40 guys or less in our private social group attending at the time that you leave. **For your safety and to obey fire codes, and so we can manage a crowd to be respectful of our City and great neighbors, we do not allow more than 120 at one time. We have hit this number many times since 1994, and have people wait in line until others leave. We turn the music down and ask everyone to be quieter late at night ... especially when walking back to your cars or waiting for rides.
Our events are for: 18+ males only. Twinks. Twunks. Jocks. Zaddys. Daddys. Otters. Cubs. Bears. And a few grandpas. Not to be rude, but we are a small team of volunteers and work hard to help Mike and make these events happen. Thus, we get extremely busy 72 hours before and on event day/night. If you e-mail or call asking a question ALREADY ANSWERED on this website, we will not respond... we just don't have the time, so please read everything here CAREFULLY. You can search keywords like "Address" or "420" (marijuana), "Clothes Check" or "Parking" ... "BYOB" / "POTLUCK" or "EMAIL" or "PHONE" by using your browser's FIND function (CTRL-F [Windows] or CMD-F [Mac]). RENOVATION NEWS: At the OC's dilapidated house... we are working to add: - COMING SOON: 2 Jaccuzis !!!l - Electronic Darts - Backyard Billiard (Pool) Table ...and we're cleaning the 45-year hoarder mess (95% done so far)
O.C. Division: Here are the numbers as we've logged them at the Check-in desk... (we have done well for September~December; January was slower; February has picked-up well and we expect higher numbers in March and certainly April as night weather warms up! We will post numbers from Sept.~Feb. soon (we've just been too busy).
2021 OC Aggregate Attendance:3rd Qtr June: 104 (38 newbies)July: 121 (43 newbies)Aug: 106 (28 newbies)3rd Qtr Cume: 331 (109, 33% new guests)
4th QtrSep: (will be published soon as we've closed Sept)Oct:Nov:
Summer Fiscal 3rd QuarterDemo Ages (change vs. 4th Qtr 2020)*** 18-24: +500%18-34: +800%18-49: +900%50+: +70%60+: +0%
(change vs. 4th Qtr 2020)Asian/Pac Isl: +425 %Black: +150 %Caucasian: +36 %Latino: +570 %(All others FLAT)
Attendance by Body Type% change vs. 1-2 Qtr
Twink (18-24): +625%Twunk (25-34): +400%Jock (18-49 Gym Bod): +300%Zaddy (35-59, Sexy): +200%Daddy (35-60+): +850%Otter/Cub (18-34): +300%Bear (35-49; 50+): +350%Chub (any age): +300% Pretty Boy/Men, any category, since June 2021 re-launch: +1025%
LA's events are exclusive and we don't publish any attendance, inductee, or age/ethnic demographics as we do with inclusive OC 3x/month events. The L.A. events are about 5x/year at private, rented mansions and held from May thru November.
★ Orange County INCLUSIVE events: New change effective Aug. 2022: 18-20: $10 Recommended Donation. 21+: $25 Recommended Donation** PERFECT TEN / L.A. CARD HOLDERS: $10 OFF ★ Los Angeles (Beverly Hills) EXCLUSIVE events (by invite only if you are scouted and accepted at the O.C. events: $50 One-time Initiation Fee $150 Each Event (about 5x/year) BOTH LA AND OC: BRING YOUR I.D. - We check it! LA Members are given a Barcode Passcard which must be presented - no exceptions. OC: SPECIAL EVENTS may be free for VIPs, or have higher prices and be BY INVITE ONLY. See info/subscribe to our eMALE Newsletters. **We have not had a donation-ask increase for almost 10 years! See the sex event comparison chart (further below before the photo tour). We are a bargain! Plus: If you are a first-time newbie and it is slow (less than 40 guys), we will give you a manager's comp to get in free on a future visit, so don't just leave... ask for the Manager. $25 Donation gets you a chance to win $50 cash raffle, plus additional smaller cash prize(s). CASH preferred, but @Venmo and $CASHapp are accepted. LOCKERS: $3 per person; due to limited space inside the locker, no shoes -- wear flipflops. Locker rentals are limited... first come, first served. ★ OC: 3x per month, 8pm~1am. If vibe is good, we likely will extend to 2am or later. SPECIAL EVENTS on other days/nights. You can only find out about these by subscribing to our eMale Newsletter here on this website. Free food/snacks, drinks (OPEN BAR w/5 ice machines), massage therapist on table, movies, DJ, Go-Go-Guys. Gourmet Pizza available at most events, first-come, first served. NO DRUG usage on the property (see below): No backpacks are allowed. Also, due to theft prevention, if you bring a backpack or bag, it will likely be searched at entry and when you leave -- best to leave valuables locked and hidden in your car. Every so often there are special O, honoring first responders (Police/Fire/Ambulance/E.R. teams), Military, Seniors and Students. Plan your arrival time: At the OC events, we find that most...
- Regulars/Elders arrive earliest: Between 8pm~9p
- Ages 35~59: 9:30pm~10p arrival
- Younger 18~34; 18~49: 10pm~12Mid arrival We start closing at 12:30am and stop by 1am, usually. Again, IF the vibe is great and people are quiet, the managers may extend past 1am. OC: Free street parking (gets filled fast). LA: You must have your car valet parked. Since the address of the events changes it is best to Lyft/Uber with friends. LA events are only 4-5x/year; off November thru April) are at a private mansion that changes - the address is sent only to those permitted to each event. To apply to be nominated and inducted into LA's ev, you must show in-person to the OC event for a meet-and-greet a few times, so we know your personality. It is not a good fit for everyone's vibe. You should be a 8-10 in attractiveness and have no attitude! OC 3x/month events are near Disneyland. The Address MAP NAVIGATION auto link is at the bottom with our phone number and e-mail links. Use your browser to search "ADDRESS" if you don't want to scroll below (CTRL-F or CMD-F). OC: Poppers OK. NO on all other drugs including 420 (however if you smoke/vape/pen on the sidewalk-street then re-enter, we will accept that). There is a cigarette/cigar smoking area, and we do provide complimentary lighters. LA: Poppers, 420 is OK. OC★ CLOTHES CHECK / BELONGINGS: Please do not walk in any undress/sexy clothing while walking through the neighborshood and respect our cool neighbors! We have limited locker space for $3 in a shared system (only we have the keys to open/close). We ask that you leave valuables and your phone locked in your car, out of sight. You will need your picture ID (and/or Military/Student with birthdate printed) and some money for the Donation Ask and to tip Go-Go-Guys, but don't bring in a lot of cash. Some men carry Poppers/Lube/Condoms in a velcro armband pouch. We do provide condoms/lube for $1 for 2 of your mix/match choice). If you want to walk around semi/full-nude, then please rent a locker. No backpacks or shoes are allowed in our lockers due to space constraints. YOU MUST HAVE FOOTWEAR. OC★ We do not send out RSVP confirmations, nor do you need a "reservation" or to be put on the guest list -- Just show up! Keep in mind that capacity is limited by safety, fire code, city/police code and respect for our neighbors in keeping noise and impact to a minimum. LA★ You must wait for an RSVP confirmation and have this on your mobile phone for entry with your picture ID AND your LAOC Jacks VIP card -- no exceptions. You cannot use a photo of your ID from your mobile phone at entry. OC PARKING: Limited free street parking ... so arrive early, or park farther away and Lyft/Uber to the house. If we reach fire safety capacity, you may end-up standing in line or turned down for the night. HYGIENE: Some private groups/clubs want guys to arrive un-bathed or smelling. Others ban cologne. We have had some guests who don't shower or have very strong, bad body odor. We'd prefer that our crowd come after a good shower and not heavely perfumed, and with ample deodorant. BOTTOMS: This should go without saying: At least 3-5 hours before you leave your home, be enema'd first, then showered second (not the other way around). BYOB: You may not bring your own alcohol. If you get drunk and are out of control, we will ask you to leave, call you a ride, and you may get banned. NO GLASS BOTTLES are allowed. FOOD/POTLUCK: After our re-launch in June 2021 with Covid-19, our new Business Manager banned our guests from bringing treats to share. People with unwashed hands were grabbing cookies, chips and other food - and we were worried about bad intentions for health reasons, so we now serve snacks that are individually wrapped, and have gourmet pizza prepared by a chef. We ask that you not bring your own food. LOS ANGELES: LA vs OC - The OC eventshappen about 3x/month near Disneyland (usually on Saturday), and there are aditional SPECIAL DAYS. The residential house is old and the mess of the last 3 decades is finally being hauled away and many improvements were launched as of June 2021 -- we're about 35% done with the renovations. We ask your patience. The LA events are extremely secretive and roam to different residential rental properties 4-5x/year and are exclusive (think "Eyes Wide Shut"). LA takes a break during Nov~May. You can't just show-up to LA -- it is a private, exclusive club you are nominated and voted into. You become considered for nomination by going to the OC events p and meeting people from LA, making a good impression. This is how we keep LA exclusive, elite and full of beautiful men. A lot of LA guys are busy professionals, so the events are inconsistently scheduled and not regular... however, when they do happen, it is something that almost 100% of the guys say is worth the wait. The OC events are open and inclusive to any male -vs- The LA events are an exclusive, private club that requires you to have a certain look/assets/talent that are attractive to an already-member'd person. ★ OPEN BAR for 21+. We reserve the right to refuse alcohol to anyone, or limit you to 1-2 drinks @ The Junkyard Bar. If you lose control, you are immediately removed/permanently banned. OC: Food, snacks. LA: No food is served; only pre-ordered alcohol. OC★ SLING, RIM, multi-areas Want talented hands on your body? Get an expert massage on our table. LA★ 1 common group area which everyone must remain in.
★ What's your type? At every event, let the manager know your preferred 'type' of guy and he will try and match you in the future by getting you together from our growing database of 2,200+ men... after all, we want all of you to be HAPPY that you came. ;) We love to match good people up! OC★ Ask about free on-site, 20-minute result HIV testing with APAIT. STD-STI tests, too. Condoms, lube, Covid-19 masks and testing available. We are attempting to have Meningococcal Disease and Monkeypox vaccines available on-site. OC★ You don't have to be naked, semi-clothed or do anything -- many come just to socialize and absorb the atmosphere. A lot of friendships (and/or future FWBs) are forged here! Relax -- you are amongst friends in our family who won't judge you. LA★ You must be naked and participate. Everyone is TOGETHER in one mansion living room or outdoor pool area.
No Attitudes... just happy 2023 gayness.
Address is on top of the pics of "Radu I." (Scroll way down to montage of model pics). This is Radu:
Our 29th Year! FULL ANNUAL CALENDAR: Subject to Change: Always check the website's BREAKING NEWS and call the Direct Line (714-705-6960) before you leave home to join us... to confirm there are no cancellations and that you have the correct date. Several people show-up to the OC house when it is dark, mistakenly getting the wrong schedule, so always double-check before you make your way over. Note: The annual 'regular O.C.' calendar below Note that **SPECIAL EVENTS** (e.g. Sunday Afternoon Jacuzzi & Hot Dogs / Weekdays / Fetish Events / L.A. Division Hotties Club and Perfect TEN members-only, etc) are NOT on the calendar and are only planned and announced 1-5 weeks in advance!) Not every SPECIAL EVENT is open to everyone... some O.C. Specials are by invite only. 2023: May 20 Sat -Canceled. May 27th Sat -29th Anniversary postponed to a future date Jun 3 Sat, 17 Sat, 23 Fri Jul 8 Sat -Founder Mike's 73rd BDay and Jul 15 Sat, 22 Sat Aug 5 Sat, 19 Sat, 26 Sat Sep 2 Sat, 16 Sat, 22 Fri Oct 7 Sat, 14 Sat, 21 Sat Nov 4 Sat, 18 Sat Dec 2 Sat, 9 Sat, 16 Sat Our ADDRESS, DIRECT LINE PHONE INFO AND E-MAIL LINKS ARE BELOW... keep scrolling down.
Asian Pacific AIDS Intervention Team (APAIT), In Room "A" behind the Check-in Desk.